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孩子们会时不时的发脾气。从唠叨going out to play, to continuously crying to get their favorite toys in the mall, making them behave properly is always challenging. You’ll find hundreds of parenting books with traditional ways to teach your kids good manners. But today, you’ll learn more fun and humorous ways to tackle some behavioral issues with your kids.
Here are some of the cool parenting tips that you should definitely try out to make your kids behave precisely the way you want them to.
1. Make Use Of Their Short Attention Span
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Kids can get distracted easily. They can shift their attention from one thing to another in a matter of seconds. Although, a smart parent knows how to trick them using this quality. Whenever you find them crying or doing drama in public, you can make them forget about the source they are yelling for instead of telling them not to do it. For instance, ask them about their clothes color whenever you see them crying. Then, they’ll completely shift their focus from crying to seeing themselves. And that will do the trick.
2. Telling Them About The Remaining Play Time Isn’t The Best Strategy
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Time flies within seconds when you do something you love. And if you don’t want your child to become cranky about getting limited time to play, you can use the following strategy. Instead of telling them how much time is left before they stop, tell them they have only several chances to do their desired activity. For example, if your kid is playing soccer, don’t say they have 5 minutes more. Instead of this, say you have 10 more shoots. They will understand this statement more clearly and might end their business within the desired time limit.
3. Sleep In Infront Of Your Kids To Make Them Sleep
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You can become a role model for your kid. If you want them to sleep on time without a fuss, set an example by doing it yourself. Your kid will also follow in your footsteps and realize it’s nothing good to wake up so late. Or even, you can trick them, yes, just fake your sleep until they doze off. And later on, you can enjoy your me time just the way you want.
4. Know How To Reject Their Unwanted Requests
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It’s not rare to see your kid rolling on the floor, crying loudly to convince you to buy their luxurious chocolate. Well, there’s a smart way to persuade them to let go of stubbornness and behave appropriately in public. You can just divert their necessity into a planned thing without making them feel sad. Even if your child already has a lot of toys, it can be challenging to refuse their requests. Don’t decline, then. Request that they “add it to the list.” You can avoid disputes and cries in the store by doing this.
5. Give Choices But Ask Differently
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You want your kid to be independent and make choices confidently. But to get there, you keep repeating the same questions, making it too obvious for your kids to answer or think differently. So you should use the right and updated way of telling them about their choices. Kids love having options and being in charge, so before you go forth, ask them which outfit they would want to wear. But make your query more specific. For example, asking “Black or blue?” is preferable to asking “Which one?”
Furthermore, if there isn’t a choice, don’t offer them one. The correct response to a question like “Should we go home?” is the same. Also not recommended are meaningless questions like, “So how are we planning to do this?”
6. Resolve Sibling Fights Easily
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You might be aware of their constant fights when you have more than one kid to care for. They can fight for games, books, tv remotes, and clothes. You can end this tussle in a planned way. You can assign them their days to use or play with it whenever you watch them fight over the same thing. This way, there will be no point in arguing, and they’ll learn valuable lessons like being disciplined.
7. Easy Way Of Teaching Them Gratitude
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Saying sorry or thank you denotes more than mere words. These words can bring people together, make stronger bonds, and improve emotional understanding. If you want your kids to help you and others more, you can start this process yourself. If your kid offers to assist you, kindly accept their offer. Everyone wants to hear praise from others. Learn to apologize and say “thank you” to them. No matter their age, this activity “makes you feel connected to them and improves your bond with them.”
Hopefully, these subtle tricks will help you efficiently manage your kids’ tantrums. So what techniques do you apply to raise your children? In the comment section below, let us know about a few other tips you might want to share with fellow parents. Happy parenting!
