Interesting Facts About Love That Might Surprise You

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Love is a divine feeling and topic of discussion all through the history of humankind. If you are curious to know facts about love, you are at the right place. Love has been interpreted and defined by poets, psychologists, biologists, philosophers, among others. However, as new studies and research keep surfacing on a daily basis, the perceptions and definitions of love have changed drastically over the years.According to studies, falling in love has neurological effects like cocaine.This post brings you some astonishing love facts. Read on.

20 Science-based Facts About Love

1. Love and lust: The difference lies in the eyes of the beholder.

You may think that your heart knows the best. However, love is not a precondition for sexual desire, and sexual desire may not alwayslead to love.

A study has shown that the pattern of eye gaze can reveal the difference between love and lust (sexual desire). As per the study, the eye gaze shifts based on the person’s goal—the feeling of love leads to more frequent eye fixations on the face than on the body, whereas in lust, the eye fixation is more profound on the body than on the face(1).

Yes, the eyes do reveal your intentions and interests.

2. Love acts like a drug.

Passionate love creates feelings of euphoria and exhilaration. Interestingly, the areas of the brain that are activated by these romantic feelings largely overlap the areas that are associated with reward, desire, addiction, and euphoric states.Romantic loveand use ofopioid drugsⁱXA category of painkillers that interact with opioid receptors in the body to relieve pain, such as cocaine, trigger similar regions in the brain, releasingoxytocinⁱX还可以作为化学信使的激素and regulates various body functions and human interactions and behavior,vasopressinⁱXA hormone and neurotransmitter involved in the electrolyte–water balance, social bonding, and stress response, anddopamineⁱXA chemical that transport messages among nerve cells and also acts as a hormone that induces happiness and motivation, which put one in a “feel-good” or “happy” state(2).

3. Hugging your partner can lead to less stress and a healthier heart.

Hugginga partner or spouse can lower blood pressure and increase oxytocin levels in premenopausal women(3).Oxytocin hormone is known to have anti-stress properties and promote healing and well-being(4).

4. A loving relationship means a healthy heart.

Being in a relationship or being married has its perks. A study of 3.5 million people has revealed that people who are married have lower rates of cardiovascular diseases when compared with people who are single, divorced, or widowed(5). In individuals aged 50 years and below, marriage is associated with 12% lower odds of any vascular disease(5).

5. Lovers’ hearts beat in sync.

“My heart beats for you…” Do you say that to your partner often? Scientifically, you may not be wrong.

According to a study conducted by researchers at the University of California, lovers’ hearts beat at the same rate. The study revealed that the heart rate and respiration rate of couples who are in a romantic relationship synchronize when they sit facing each other for around three minutes(6),(7).Interestingly, when the pairs are mixed, no syncing is observed.

6. Love can reduce your pain.

Love can act as a painkiller. Surprised? Well, when people are in love, their moods change and also their experiences with pain. A study conducted by the Stanford University School of Medicine shows that passionate, intense love and ardor can relieve pain similar to that of the painkillers or illicit drugs such as cocaine(8).

7. Long-term commitment and memory have a strong connection.

Do you remember every aspect ofyour relationship—how it moved forward, and what the important milestones were?

A study has reported that committed couples remember their relationship history, including the things that happened during eachstage of their relationshipmore accurately than those couples in a strained relationship(9). The study says that the couples in the second group often choose to misremember things to avoid disappointment.

8. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

You may have often heard thatlong-distance relationships都不成功。然而,有一个公关的研究esents a different picture. The study has revealed that long-distance relationships are not only successful, but also help in developing trust, fondness, and satisfaction between partners(10).

9. Couples start to look alike in appearance.

Opposites may not always attract. You may have noticed that some couples do look alike. Interestingly, a group of researchers from the University of Michigan found that couples grow to look more like each other after a certain period (around 25 years)(11). The happier the couple, the closer the similarity in their physical appearance.

This may happen because couples who stay together and have unity tend to mimic each other’s facial expressions and behavior. So, if your partner has a good sense of humor or laughs often, you will probably start doing so too.

10. Men fall in love faster than women.

It is a general misconception that women are more romantic andfall in lovefaster than men.

A study of 172 college students has shown that men fall in love sooner and say, “I love you” faster than women(12).

11. Romantic relationships can change your behavior.

Love and affection have the power to change the behavior of partners in a relationship. According to a study that was carried out on 245 young couples for nine months, it was observed that being in a relationship and experiencing romance decreased neuroticism and brought about a positive change in the personality of young couples(13). Perhaps the partners became optimistic and self-confident because of the positive emotions experienced in a relationship.

12. Laughter is the best medicine for love.

Do you and your partner crack up at each other’s jokes or laugh while watching comedy movies or series? This shared laughter and rapture can lead to more intimacy between the two of you.

The results of a study of 71 romantic couples have indicated that laughing or cracking up together is associated with closeness. Couples are more supportive, show compassion for each other, and are satisfied and happy in their relationship when they laugh together(14).

13. Love has healing powers.

When people say love and time can heal all wounds, they may not be wrong.

Researchers have observed an association betweenpsychological distressⁱXUnpleasant and overwhelming feelings commonly triggered by mood disorders such as anxiety or depressionand wound healing.

A study of 42 married couples, aged between 22 and 77 years has shown that wound healing is slower in couples with marital discord. In addition, it has shown that couples who are more hostile heal slower than couples who are less hostile and show endearment for each other(15).

14. Love hormone is what you need for headaches.

A group of researchers has shown that the use of intranasal oxytocin or “love hormone” spray can help alleviate migraine headaches. Moreover, thisanalgesic effectⁱXRelated to medicines or drugs that alleviate painis shown to be stronger in patients with chronic migraine(16).

Results of the study showed that about half of the participants reported their headache reduced by half after four hours, with an additional 27 percent reporting no headache at all during the same duration.

15. Like the moon, love has phases.

Researchers from Harvard have shown that like the moon, love also develops in phases. The early phase of love is quite different from its later phase. It starts with obsession and intense adoration (serotonin levels are high at this time) but then cements into a relationship or a more mature form of love (oxytocin levels are high at this time)(17).

16. Love and lust activate different regions in the brain.

Researchers believe thatlust and loveinvolve different intentions, goals, and interests. Now, brain imaging studies have made it possible to map out the regions of the brain that are responsible for love and lust.

A study reveals that love and lust activate different areas of the striatum (a part of the brain structure). The area activated by lust is the same area that is usually activated by pleasurable things, such as sex or food. On the other hand, the area activated by love is associated with reward or pleasure and is also the same region that is associated with drug addiction(18).

17. Kissing can help you choose the right partner.

You may think that kissing is a way to show your love and caring nature to your partner. However, it can do more important things, including helping you to choose the right partner.

浪漫kissi的潜在影响的研究ng reported that kissing helped men and women determine their compatibility with a partner. Moreover, the frequency of kissing was associated with the quality of the relationship(19).

18. Love does happen at first sight.

A study has shown that people could reject or pursue romantic relationships with someone just by looking at them. As per the study, although this judgment is formed within seconds of seeing a potential partner, it also depends on determining physical and psychological compatibility(20).

19. Music can make or break a date.

Can music help you on your date night? The answer is yes. According to a report published in Psychology of Music, the feelings of interest, admiration, and attraction in single men and women increase when music is playing in the background during their first meeting compared to when there is no music(21).

20. A broken heart is for real.

Did you know people can suffer from broken heart syndrome? According to the American Heart Association, broken heart syndrome, also called stress-induced cardiomyopathy or takotsubo cardiomyopathy, can occur in healthy individuals too(22).

It is characterized by sudden, intense chest pain due to an increase in the levels of the stress hormones. This condition is sometimes mistaken as a heart attack. It can occur due to various factors, including the death of a loved one, divorce, breakup or physical separation, and betrayal or romantic rejection(22).