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Most of us are not great at initiating conversations, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.It’s just that you might need some text conversation starters to make the conversation flow smoothly. After all, your first impression can be a lasting impression, and no one wants to ruin it. “What’s up” is not a great text to send if you are not even friends yet, nor is “Hi” enough to make them respond. A conversation can start with a question provided you do not interrogate them with a barrage of questions. Your aim is to ensure there is a constructive exchange of dialogue from both sides to keep the conversation going. So what’s the right text starter? Read our list of some effective and good conversation starters over text to make your first impression the best impression.
Good Conversation Starters For Texting
These goodconversation startersfor texting can help you know more about the person and establish a connection with them.
- What is that one food item you can’t live without?
- Do you have any pet peeves?
- Where did you go on your last trip?
- I am currently watching the XYZ show. Have you seen it?
- What is an embarrassing thing you have done recently?
- ABC restaurant has the best pizza in town. Would you like to go there with me?
- Have you ever done something just to fit in with a group?
- Are you currently reading any books?
- Which movie can you never get tired of watching?
- What is your go-to activity when feeling low?
- Which is your most favorite place in the city?
- Would you prefer to hike on a beautiful trail or relax at a beach?
- Have you tried an adventurous sport?
- Which emoji do you use the most?
- Which is your most preferred pizza topping?
- Do you want to see the most scenic spot in the city? Let me take you there.
- Are you a risk-taker or a cautious person?
- Which movie do you find overrated?
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- How would you describe your day till now?
- Which is your go-to café in the city?
- Which TV show is your guilty pleasure?
- Does any celebrity inspire you?
- Hey, do you enjoy listening to the XYZ band? I have two tickets for their concert.
- What is something you wish to learn?
- If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you want to go?
- Have you ever slept under the stars?
- What is a turn-off for you in a partner?
- What quality do you find irresistible in a potential partner?
- Have you ever used apick-up lineon anyone?
- Which song are you listening to on repeat nowadays?
- Have you ever taken a road trip?
- What do you prefer to do during your free time?
- What is your dream job that you would do for free?
- Do you have any weird phobias?
- Which genre of movies do you dislike watching?
- Have you ever tried singing at karaoke?
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- What do you love the most about yourself?
- What is the most important dating rule, according to you?
- What is the most outrageous thing you have done toimpress someone?
- What is your most cherished possession?
- What is the most interesting thing that happened today?
- Which movie, TV, or book character inspires you the most?
- Which is the most terrible movie, according to you?
- What are the top three things on your bucket list?
- Which cuisine do you enjoy the most?
- Do you watch anime movies/TVshows?
- What did you start appreciating more in the pandemic that you used to take for granted earlier?
- Would you rather quit coffee or alcohol for life?
- If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you choose to be and why?
- Have you ever had a magical experience?
- What is the one thing that you miss the most about high school?
Funny Conversation Starters For Texting
If the conversation is getting too serious, sending afunny textmight lighten the mood.Here are some funny text conversation starters over text to bring a smile to your potential interest’s face.
- How long would you survive in a haunted house?
- If you were invisible for a day, what would you do?
- If you get stuck in the cartoon world for a day, which cartoon show would you prefer to be in?
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- If you could time travel, which year would you choose to go to?
- Have you ever kept tabs on anyone over social media?
- What is the funniest goof-up you have ever done?
- What is the weirdest question a date has ever asked you?
- What is the craziest advice you received?
- What is the cheesiest thing a date has ever done for you?
- What is the worst prank anyone has ever played on you?
- Would you rather have a botched tattoo on your forearm for life or have green hair for a week?
- What is the funniest thing that has happened to you in public?
- What would you do if you woke up as Donald Trump one day?
- Which comedy movie made you laugh so hard that you had tears in your eyes?
- What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done while being drunk?
- What is the weirdest food item you have ever tried?
- Do you believe in any conspiracy theories? Which ones?
- What is the stupidest joke you have ever heard that made you laugh?
- If you were paid a million dollars to share your private and embarrassing moments on national television, would you do it?
- If you had to be an inanimate object for a day, what would you wish to be and why?
- What is the lamest lie you have ever told at home to stay out late?
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- If your pet could talk, what is the first thing they will say to you?
- If a movie was made about your life, what would the title be?
Flirty Text Conversation Starters
Want to add a little spice to the conversation? Use theseflirty textconversation starters.
- I know you need to wait for three days after the first date to text, but waiting for that long to speak to an incredible person as you seemed like an impossible task.
- I make delicious lasagna. Would you like to join me for dinner tonight?
- Can you guess by what name I have saved your number on my phone?
- Would you stop looking so amazing in every photo? It is distracting me from work.
- I am bilingual, but my vocabulary is reduced to one word “Wow” every time I see you.
- I think I am in trouble. I just can’t stop daydreaming about you.
- What is the most magnificent person in the universe doing over the weekend?
- Thank you. I was feeling pretty low in the morning, but just the thought of you brought a smile to my face.
- Did you smile when you received this message? Now you know how I feel every time my phone pings with a text from you.
- 你能发送你的照片吗?我告诉我的朋友我遇到了an angel and they don’t believe me.
- I am bad at flirting, can you give me some tips?
- Do you want to know what my favorite distraction is?
- 在生活中你有什么遗憾吗?我只有一个。Not meeting a wonderful person like you earlier in life.
- How long before I get to see your beautiful smile again?
- Want to know a secret? I used to think X celebrity is the hottest person in the world. You made me realize how wrong I was.
- How many flirty texts do I need to send before you agree to go out with me again?
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- What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you? I would like to top it over the weekend. Are you in?
- My friends think perfection is a fantasy. Care to meet them and prove them wrong?
- If you are thinking about where to have dinner, I can give you some ideas and be a great company.
- Have you ever experienced butterflies? I experience them every time I see you.
- What would you say if I told you I am crazy about you?
- Has anyone ever told you that your smile lights up the room?
- Do you know what would be the highlight of my day? Having dinner with you. Are you ready?
- Eight billion people in the world, and you are the only one who makes my heart beat faster. How do you do it so effortlessly?
- I never get tongue-tied in front of anyone. But you’re an exception. What do you think we should do about it?
- I have pictured myself watching the sunset with you countless times now. Would you do me the honor today evening?
- Where have you been my whole life? I have been waiting for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How does texting affect conversation?
Texting can sometimes lead to misrepresenting your feelings. Text conversation can hinder you from reading the other person’s expressions, body language, and gestures. It can be hard to gather tone and inflection over text. However, it also saves time as the responses are immediate.
2. Does texting improve social skills?
Texting can help improve social skills like communication and build confidence in shy and reticent people. It is also a good way to open up, converse at your pace, make friends, and forge new relationships.
3. What can I say instead of hey in a text?
Hi, Hello, Howdy, Hey there, Good morning/afternoon/evening, and What’s up? are some greetings individuals can use instead of hey in a text. Your greetings depend on the context and the relationship you share with them.
4. What to text a guy who is ignoring you?
If a guy ignores you, you must approach the situation with understanding and respect. Consider that he may have valid reasons for not responding promptly, such as being busy or dealing with personal issues. Some texts you may leave to help them know you are waiting for their revert include,“Hey, you haven’t been responding to my messages. Is everything okay?” Hi, it’s been quite some time since we spoke. If there’s something on your mind, please let me know.”
5. How do I start a conversation with someone I don’t know well over text?
Starting a conversation with someone you don’t know well over text can feel daunting, but with the right approach, you can make it comfortable and engaging. First, start with a friendly greeting and choose an appropriate time for texting. Then, begin with a brief introduction and look for a common ground or shared interest to use as a conversation starter.
6. How do I respond when the person I’m texting is giving short answers?
When the person you’re texting is giving short answers, it can be challenging to maintain a conversation. Ask open-ended questions that require elaborate answers and respond with follow-up questions or comments that demonstrate you’re actively listening. Show patience and understanding by sharing your own experiences related to the topic, which might inspire the other person to share more about their own experiences or thoughts.
7. How do I know when it’s time to end the conversation over text?
You may close the conversation if the topic has been discussed thoroughly and there are no more relevant points or questions to explore. If the other person’s replies are becoming brief, lacking enthusiasm, or taking longer to arrive, it could indicate they are losing interest, and it may be suitable to end the conversation.
When initiating a conversation with a person you are interested in, you may want to ensure you ask the right questions to keep the conversation going. You can first greet them with a pleasantry and then ask them a question that is not intrusive but can lead to a fun banter or a repartee session. A question can be an opening line for a conversation. However, asking close-ended and awkward questions might lead to awkward single-lined answers, eventually killing the conversation. Using this list of good conversation topics for texting, you can ensure that you ask the right questions and make a good first impression. If you haven’t talked much to this person, steer away from extremely personal and explicit topics. Instead, give them time to get comfortable with you first.
Infographic: A Few Additional Conversation Starters For Texts
Conversations are the best way to get to know each other. But you must have good conversation starters up your sleeve to ensure that your talking goes smoothly. In addition to the vast list of conversation starters, we have added a few more in the following infographic so that you do not have to run out of any. So read on and make sure you keep this list handy as well.
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